When we judge others we shut our minds off from seeing our own faults. When we don't see our own faults, then we likewise don't recognize our downward spiral of behavior. We should not accept something just because "we believe it or we think it is OK." We need to examind our own thinking, to examine ourselves, our motives ...deeply to find our own faults.
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Just because we think that "something is OK" does not mean that it really is OK. What your own thoughts and think about your own thinking. One of the greatest faults any of us have is when we accept thoughts, ideas, predjudices, etc just because they came from use. Instead we should hold ourselves up to a higher standard than other people. We should think about and examine our own thoughts and behaviors to see if they are true or if we need to correct them.
Just because we think that something is true does not mean that it is true or OK. Watch your thoughts and think about your thinking.